"Life is not about the moments you breathe; it’s about the moments that take your breath away."
Life
in itself is an experience; each day is new and brings new hopes and new
challenges. At the end of the day what exactly matters are the memories we are
building up.
In
the sinusoidal wave only the crest or the troughs gets noticed. Crest has a
meaning because trough exists. When we look back we only remember days with
extraordinary experiences; a day passed normally has no significance. We know
good days only after experiencing bad days and vice versa. Memories of good
time will help you sail through the hard times and the memories of hard times
make good times more enjoyable. Many times we don’t realize that a particular
moment that is so natural for us in current time can become a lovable memory for
tomorrow.
Regrets & Grudges
What
spoils the fun here are the regrets we do and grudges we carry. They occupy our
mind and their presence is so dominant that they curb other feelings and emotions.
The entire focus shifts from building memories to taking revenge and repenting
on wrong deeds.
I
remember my soul mate’s sentence here and can’t stop myself mentioning it here “don’t
regret on the decisions taken in past as those were the once we took to best of
our capacity and knowledge in given circumstances” and for grudges I will quote
mine, “don’t carry grudges as “KARMA” will take care of the right and wrong;
good and bad”
The Perfect
way
There
is no rule book or guidelines to live a balanced and perfect life. Per say
perfect life doesn’t exist; not even in fairytales as Cinderella too cleaned
the dishes, washed the clothes, Thumbelina was too tiny to get noticed and Rapunzel
was locked away in tower in middle of woods. The key here is “Hope” & “Desire”;
i.e. don’t lose hope in bad times and don’t settle down for less than what you
deserve in life. Take each day as it comes and try to make most of it. Count
your blessings and at times go with the flow.
