TOP OR FLOP ???

Is it ok to assume that a person excelling professionally can handle the day to day home crisis easily or visa versa?
Confused? Read the question again....

A person doing good at professional front, able to maintain healthy professional relationships,having a good rapport with peers and seniors may goof up personally. It works equally well the other way i.e a person with healthy relations at home may not be able to handle the professionalism at workplace.

The more interesting fact here is that the qualities which are your highlights at workplace are the once taken negatively at home. Your attributes which are praised at home are not acceptable at workplace. In fact many times you will feel the Approach/strategies/process/procedures, you are using at workplace in devising a solution of your problems fails miserably in home crisis situations at the same time the way you handle day to day home crisis holds no significance in solving work related problems.

What does all this means? Are we two different persons one at workplace and one at home? Do we play split personalities? Why this difference when we are dealing with humans at both places? One place you are star and other place you are a waste. You hold numerous colleague and friends and just a handful of relationships or a complete loner at workplace but most desirable in family. Your work is much appreciated and organized at office but at home you are seen as a clumsy person. This leads to irritation,suffocation and confusion.

In order to understand this I tried relating to  Johari Window , it addresses the problem to an extend but still its not a complete answer.

Pondering upon and still trying to figure out the answer...

- Anshul