DUMB- NOT DEAF

Married girls should be dumb not deaf

When I get troubled with my in laws all well wishers keep telling me behave like deaf and dumb.

I actually tried doing that, it turned out to be a working formula to some extent, and then I realized that the above sentence needs a slight modification it should say be dumb but not deaf.  Because the problem persists ,if you behave as deaf as your in laws want to vent out their frustration by speaking and they want a trash can to dump their frustrations. Hence the dumb factor becomes so so important because only being dumb can nullify the Newton’s law “to every action there is a reaction”. No deaf and totally dumb goes so much in hand in hand that if you disturb the delicate balance, the entire harmony is gone.

Dumb means not to utter a word and keep listening to all the shit. The moment you break your silence you are gone. People will rip you apart. No one will support you as you will be tagged as a one who talks back and misbehave. Believe me YOU HAVE RUINED YOUR LIFE the moment you utter a word.

The Saviour

You yourself are your saviour. No one will help you, it’s your fight and you are all alone in this. But that doesn't mean you lose your courage and hope. Always remember someone somewhere is looking at all this. No efforts go waste and no wrong deed goes without punishment.  History tells us that everyone has to pay back. You can think both ways either it’s your payback time or the one who is troubling you will have to pay back. If you set your mind like this the kind of satisfaction you will get is immense.

The “NEW YOU”

Well the output of all this? You will emerge as “new you”. Full of vigour, hope and desires. Fully matured with a wonderful thought process.  Small things don’t bother you much and you look forward for good and better things. You know your limits and you are so flexible. You have mastered the art of “feeling happy” and mere” looking happy”. You truly understands the meaning of “Count your blessings”. You laugh looking back at the moments where you acted dumb. And you really know how perfect you are that people are so jealous of you. You understand the kind of inferiority complex you gave them. It’s not you who is fighting it’s them struggling to save their position in your presence. 

You will see yourself humming “khud Jiyo auro ko bhi jeenay do”

-Anshul